is a must, preferably a bath with lots of scented oils, delicate
soaps and soft sponges for maximum pleasure. If you don't
have a bath, shower together and, for once, forget about conserving
water. Take your time, wash each other, touch lovingly. By
all means have sex in the shower if you wish, or just enjoy it as
a prelude to love-making.
This extra effort to
create romance goes a long way towards keeping established relationships
fresh, and new lovers need variety because they're in bed so much!
Take the time to be romantic as well as sexy, relaxed as well as
If you're single, what's
wrong with preparing a romantic interlude for yourself, with candles,
luscious food and your favourite music? Afterwards, you can take
yourself off to bed; after all, masturbation is an expression of
self-love and it can be made more enjoyable if accompanied by all
the special trappings you would normally share with a lover.