for romance is vitally important. While sex is often more
exciting in inappropriate and awkward places, this is never true
for romance. The more luxurious and comfortable the physical
setting, the more lovers can relax and this makes for better
sex. If you're uncomfortable, you want to get it over and
done with quickly, but for prolonged and pleasurable love-making,
a soft bed or sofa, satiny covers and big fluffy cushions are the
order of the day.
Take some trouble over
planning the evening. Be aware of colours as some are more
soothing than others, such as blue for instance. Red is for
passion! Design a setting that expresses what you want for
Burn incense or spray
some expensive perfume around the room. Surround the room
with flowers in fancy arrangements or sprinkle rose petals onto
the bed. Leave tiny gifts for your partner in hidden places.
Make the whole experience an adventure. It's not what you
do or spend that's important, but the caring you put into the preparation.