essentially substitutes for the male penis as they are shaped like
one some even having mock veins and musculature. Therefore,
they are ideal for women without partners who can insert them or
use them on the clitoris to bring about orgasm. Couples can
also employ them in the same way, especially if the guy has finished
for the night and the woman wants more, or she hasn't as yet climaxed.
They're ideal for clitoral stimulation before and during intercourse,
either held by the woman herself or her partner.
There are many different
types of vibrators on the market today.
I suggest that you find a user-friendly adult product shop and ask
to see the full range as the day of the simple, plastic, shaft-shaped
vibrator is gone. Now, there are vibrators that rotate, swivel,
light up, have multiple functions, various speeds and come in all
sizes and colours.
One of the best innovations
is the addition of the clitoral stimulator.
This is constructed on the side of the vibrator and works on the
clitoris while the shaft moves inside the vagina. At present,
the ultimate vibrator is one called the 'ET', which is computerised
and does 'everything'. It swivels around the top knob, rotates
in the middle and has a side-attachment which vibrates directly
onto the clitoris. It's literally a case of lie back and enjoy
yourself! This is an expensive toy and not for everyone, but
it's ideal for the long-term single woman who doesn't always want
to feel herself and bring herself to climax. With the 'ET',
she can be more relaxed as there's no work or effort involved.
Sex toys, apart from
being fun, can also serve a therapeutic role. They are a great
asset to non-orgasmic women, in and out of relationships.
If male partners are open-minded enough to introduce sex toys, or
whatever else is going to help their women reach an orgasm, the
relationship can only benefit. Vibrators can also take the
pressure off guys who feel performance anxiety, especially if they
can't satisfy their partners for whatever reason. This can
become a chronic problem when it need not be.
Men who suffer from impotence
either through medical or psychological reasons, can still enjoy
love-making, knowing that they can use a vibrator to give their
partners an orgasm. The same applies to premature ejaculators,
who feel a lot of anxiety and guilt about leaving their partners
unsatisfied because they're too quick.